Time for another Secret Newlywed Behavior Confessions.
I remember when i was in high school, i went to a lot of movies by myself!
Yes i was probably a nerd or a loner or both but nonetheless…i really enjoyed my solo time.
In college, i probably spent too much time away pinning away for my home-based boyfriend
which lead me to do a lot of activities on my own.
But again, all these individual activities allowed me to grow.
Before meeting Mr. Pancakes…i was used to doing activities on my own like
movies, dinner, coffee shop and reading books at the local bookstore.
Doing all the things i LOVED.
I am finding it is important to have solo-time as a newlywed
because it makes me a better wife.
It allows me to do activities which i enjoy including having friends outside of my marriage.
Of course it’s important to surround yourself with healthy friends.
Recently i went to dinner on my own which was nice.
Doing some pampering activities is also important.
If Mr. Pancakes is unable to go attend church because of work commitments,
i will attend church on my own.
This allows me to grow outside of my husband.
And i find a happy me makes a happy wife which makes a happy husband which makes a happy marriage.
It’s all comes together!
Question of the Day:
How Do you spend your Solo-Time?