Hollywood has always made a mockery out of marriage but more and more it’s becoming available for public consumption due to the media. Marriage is supposed to be a scared thing and i am sure that most celebrities get into marriage with good intentions, as Scarlett Johansson recently put it “We entered our relationship with love and it’s with love and kindness we leave it” Are you serious? How come the same love and kindness did not allow Ms. Johansson and Mr. Ryan were unable to work on the marriage and make it work? Now i know i don’t know ANYTHING about their relatiionship and or marriage but it really is irritating to see how easily people get divorced!
I believe that sometimes our society is too accepting of divorce and therefore alright for most individuals to give up on their marriage and walk away.
I am confessing that i watch Brideszilla most Sundays (when Mr. Pancakes is not hogging the TV watching football) and most of the brides as they are prepping to get married will say stuff like “i guess if it doesn’t work out, there is always divorce!” It may come across jokingly but why would anyone say that right before the marriage. And or you watch couples that shouldn’t be getting married due to their interactions with one another and during the “Where are they Now?” episodes, they have separated and yes DIVORCED!
Mr. Pancakes and i are definitely on the same page that we allow God to be the First person in our relationship and marriage before each other! Furthermore, we have agreed that there will be no get-out clause in our marriage contract! There will be no divorce in our marriage and so we are committed to working on our relationship and marriage each and every single second, minute, hour, day, months, year!
This blog entry is more in hope that Mr. Pancakes and i and all the brides continue to work on our relationhips before and after marriage in order to prevent the D word from entering the marriage circle.